Hi. Btw I wasn’t talking to another guy in a romantic way. The friends who were guys are strictly friends and nothing more. We’ve started talking again a bit, he told me that he doesn’t trust me now and that he needs time to forget and it’ll be perfect then. I’ve changed my friend group so now I only have friends who are girls and the only guy I’m talking to is him. I don’t want to lose him, I want him to be mine again. Also I said that I’ll be happy and positive around him so that he’ll start trusting me again and that everything will be perfect.
I was in a relationship for 1 year and 1 month before my ex broke up with me because he didn’t trust me cuse I had friends who were guys and he thought I was talking to another guy at the same time I was dating him
I’m really lost and I really need your advice on how I could increase the chances of him starting to trust me again. And yes I’ve done the stupid part of being an emotional wreck and begged him. Btw he lives in Sweden and I live in Finland so it was and will be long distance for a bit more than a year before we could be close to eachother.
I contact him ask for meet up, he agreed and we have two greats night together du kan kolla här with cuddling, kissing, and sex
I just need help of earning his trust back and I don’t really now what actions I could do to get him to trust me again.
Start by building up a friendship first, since you’re talking to him and trust is earned over time, so you’ll have to show him that you’re no longer talking to other guys through your actions (when you’re out with your girls let him know who you’re with, etc) instead of just telling him.
Hey.I broke up with my boyfriend one month ago .He thinks I was cheating on him by going to the beach with my church mate,before this,he had learned that I was conducting my ex whom we have never met for last seven years. I love him.In the first two weeks of the breakup Ibegged for reconciliation,but he claimed to have already moved on.I have been in the no contact period,but noticed that he still checks my WhatsApp status and even comments. What do I do?
Continue with your life and perhaps give it another 1-2 weeks before initiating contact with him to check in with him and how he’s doing.
I have a relationship for 3 years and engaged before he studying in Sydney. At that time when he in Sydney, i cheated on him because i feel lonely and he knew it. So we broke up and i stay in relationship with the one that i cheated with. After a few months, i regret my decision for choosing him over my ex. So i broke up with him, and trying to contact my ex. Now my ex is back to Indonesia on holidays for 3 months. He said he get carried away with his feeling for me. After the second night, he turn cold to me. Asking me to stop contacting him, and he said we have no future because his family doesnt like me and know about our break up condition. He banned me to come to his place to talk over this, block my number (but he didnt block fb and instagram), and his friend said maybe i should move on because the things is so messed up. Do you thing i still have a chance to get back with him?
